Friday, 17 May 2013

#BEDM | Life's A Lesson | Day 15

My biggest life's lesson is not to regret anything you have ever done. Without the mistakes you have made in the past, you wouldn't have made those wrong decisions which have brought you to the happy place you are today. Without those silly relationships I had in my early twenties, I wouldn't be happily married and pregnant now.

It seems silly to look back at the things I have done over the past 10 years, and I must admit I personally have made some stupid mistakes that I will keep to myself forever, but without those I wouldn't have developed into my character and have the strong personality I have today.

You always have to take the ups with the downs. No matter what people say. And time, yep time is a big healer. This is one of the silliest things anyone can say at a time when you think nothing will ever get better and it's the end of the road, but in time things do work out and you start to feel a lot better about yourself and your situation.

I'm sure if I could go back and tell my 17 year old self that in 10 years time she would be doing a degree she enjoyed, pregnant, and married to a Chinese guy, she would laugh in my face and tell me I was being an idiot!

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